The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up: REVIEW


By now you’ve surely heard of the best-selling book by Japanese author Marie Kondo called The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up.

I read this book over a month ago and have been consumed with thought (and not so much action just yet) about Kondo’s theory (she calls it the KonMari Method). Since finishing the book I have thrown out bags and bags of my belongings in an attempt to obtain a state of organization that has always been just outside my reach. However, because I live with other people, I’m still trying to figure out how I can throw away all their belongings without them knowing get them all on board the Tidy Train with me.

I told my daughter Bree (who is now 23 years old and can’t be bothered with tidiness) how captivated I am by Kondo’s theory and how I secretly desire to throw out all my possessions and become a minimalist. She looked at me in horror and said, “that sounds AWFUL. I can’t think of anything worse.”

Contrary to what Bree thinks, the KonMari Method sounds more than amazing to me. I’m sure this is entirely because I am the sole-tidier in a home with three other family members who are (in no particular order, and without naming names to protect the guilty):

1) A paper hoarder. Every single receipt and piece of mail is “important” to this family member. Piles of paper build up around the areas where this family member presides. Bedside? Stacks of paper. Bathroom counter? Wadded up receipts, folded receipts, faded receipts.  Kitchen counter? Piles and piles of mail and menus and receipts and yeah. I’m sure you get the paper picture I’m trying to paint for you.

2) A craft supply hoarder. This particular family member is very creative and crafty and they are always working on some new and exciting art/cooking/sewing/sculpting/DIY project. All these projects require many “things”: string, flour, tape, hot glue, glitter, salt, clay, wire, beads, ribbon…. and as much as I try to organize and purge this person’s collection of craft supplies they will always scream at me “NO! I need that! Don’t throw it away!” Even if it’s a broken button that clearly has served its purpose in life and is begging to be thrown in the trash.

3) A clothing/handbag/shoe/sunglasses/jewelry/beauty product hoarder. I mean, this family member is very beautiful and stylish but that doesn’t negate the sheer VOLUME of personal belongings this person hoards. I’m certain an entire nation could be clothed with this particular family member’s stash.

So far, I have been moving slowly in my home to remove everything that does not bring me joy (the main message of the KonMari Method is to be rid of anything that does not do just that) and is cluttering up my space and mind with its presence. Taking your time with the KonMari Method is precisely what Kondo says not to do, as she feels it takes away from the impact of incorporating the method at once. She says, “A dramatic reorganization of the home causes correspondingly dramatic changes in lifestyle and perspective.” Understandable, but I figure a slow-moving Tidying Magic is better than a no-moving Tidying Magic. Don’t judge.

I started with my own closet and workspace and set out to purge everything I possibly could. This included several dresses in my closet that still had tags on them (one silk dress in particular I had bought for my cousin’s wedding in 2010 and never wore). I will just tell you right now that it is very difficult to throw away brand new (or like new) belongings but I stuck to my guns. No matter how perfect the condition, if it no longer served its purpose and no longer sparked joy in me, I tossed it.

I walked out of my closet feeling quite accomplished. It felt really good to just let things go that don’t matter to me. I’m quite certain I won’t miss those long button up sweatshirts that are a little too tight but would look super cute over my workout pants if I were ten pounds lighter. Bye! And I know I won’t miss the 15 race shirts I finally threw out (what took me so long?!). I crossed those finish lines and have the Instagram pics to prove it. Good riddance, race shirts!


The hardest part for me is getting rid of backup supplies and paper products. I mean, I like to be prepared, you know? Paper towels to last six months? I got you. Sleeping over and you forgot your toothbrush? No worries, I have A STASH. Let’s not even discuss the deodorant situation.


Part of Kondo’s theory is that you don’t need a bunch of backup supplies cluttering up space in your home. As much as having a backstock of deodorant brings me a certain peace of mind, clearing out all the excess in my life brings me PEACE OF EXISTENCE. It’s life-changing, people.

I’m still working on finding a way to live peacefully amongst my family member’s STUFF, but I do think The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up is a great read for anyone who wants to experience the life transforming change that clutter-free space and order brings.

Feel the magic, friends.


Eva Mendes the NEW Face of Estee Lauder


Estee Lauder announced yesterday that Eva Mendes is the face of the New Dimension transformative skincare collection debuting in fall 2015.

“I’m thrilled to welcome Eva to the Estée Lauder family to represent New Dimension skincare,” said Jane Hertzmark Hudis, Global Brand President, Estée Lauder. “As an actress, businesswoman and now a mother, Eva understands the power of transformation that is at the heart of our new approach to beauty. Eva’s warmth and approachability will help us share this incredible story with women around the world.”

“Since my teenage years, I have always admired Estée Lauder, the woman and the brand,” said Mendes. “I’m excited to represent New Dimension skincare because I can relate personally to what it stands for – the power we have as women to take control and transform our own beauty.”

The skincare collection features New Dimension Shape + Fill Expert Serum and New Dimension Expert Liquid Tape. It empowers women to transform their appearance, helping define the look of contours so every angle becomes a woman’s best angle.

Sally Hansen Patent Gloss Review


I’m a longtime fan of Sally Hansen nail polish. I’ve professed my love of the Sally Hansen No Chip Acrylic Top Coat many times and it remains a Makeup Bag favorite to this day.

A couple weeks ago, I tried the new Sally Hansen Patent Gloss and wasn’t surprised when it held up beautifully a week into my manicure. Available in four limited-edition shades, Sally Hansen Patent Gloss Nail Color has a high-impact shine and patent leather finish.


This shade is called Moto, a deep blue-based red. It’s also available in the following colors (shown below from left to right): Vinyl, Chic, Moto and Slick.



International Women’s Day 2015



For the last 23 years, my life has been dedicated to molding, shaping and raising my three daughters into the young women they are today. As a young mother (just 21 years old when I had Bree) I paved my own path to parenting, learning along the way. My way wasn’t necessarily right or wrong, but it was authentic to me. Each success and failure brought me to the next. I had to face the consequences of giving them too many choices (three different dinners for three different appetites) and the challenges of trying to give them everything they wanted (hi credit card debt!). I also witnessed their compassion and selflessness, knowing I had empowered them to be kind.

For 23 years, I have guided and loved these girls of mine. They have given me purpose and an identity. I am Bree, Bailey and Janey’s mom. And because of them, I am so much more.

In honor of International Women’s Day 2015, Gillette Venus wants to celebrate women and their multi-dimensionality by inspiring us to not be limited by labels.

I am a mother. And a businesswoman. And a friend. I am determined, and confident, and sweet. I am a runner. I am kind. I am practical and decisive. I am strong, and thoughtful. I am all of these things and so many more. I am not limited by labels.


The Oscars: About Last Night

Here’s the thing. I live in Hawaii where the scenery is gorgeous and the weather is balmy and beautiful year round. I mean, this week half the country was freezing and I’m down here in the middle of the Pacific Ocean taking pictures like this on my iPhone:

Kauai Sunset

But let me tell you, when it comes to award season and my Twitter Feed is on East Coast Time but my cable service says we are on Hawaii time (read: A FULL FIVE HOURS BEHIND THE REST OF HUMANITY) living in paradise totally blows.

For this reason, I chose to not even look at my Twitter Feed while all the Oscar red carpet excitement was happening yesterday.

Instead, I painted my nails and patiently waited for the show to start here in Hawaii. (How amazing is this Sally Hansen Patent Gloss in Moto?)


By the time the show started here in Hawaii, everyone in LA was on their third martini at the after parties so I found myself alone in the living room making judgments out loud to no one in particular. They sounded a little something like this:

  • E! You’re making it very very difficult for me to love you. Ross and Kelly are your saving graces, but Ryan and Giuliana have become unbearable. Come on Ryan, if you’re going to ask a question at least let them answer.
  • I can’t with Khloe Kardashian. I mean, really?
  • Thank GOD for Robin Roberts.
  • JLo slays, as per usual. (I’m unsure about the lip, though. Could just be my TV, but it looks lavender.)
  • I’m pretty sure Patricia Arquette is drunk and the show hasn’t even started.
  • I love how Nicole Kidman is back to looking like her gorgeous self. Injectables are the devil, people. THE DEVIL.
  • Speaking of the devil, poor Melanie Griffith.
  • Gwyneth Paltrow looks amazing. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, she is perfection.
  • Ball gowns should not have pockets in them. (Ahem, Chloe Grace Moretz.)
  • Call your mom.
  • How long has Jared Leto looked like Jesus?
  • Anna Wintour wears her sunglasses at night. Ugh.
  • Holy purple smoky eye, Jennifer Hudson. Your face is giving me life right now.
  • Who knew NPH looked so good in his underwear?
  • Okay, Patricia Arquette isn’t drunk anymore. That speech!
  • Wait, I’m confused. His name isn’t John Legend?
  • Oh no, Im…. falling… asleep.
  • Stay weird. Stay different. I love this.
  • Julianne Moore is a goddess.

I’ll be posting my favorite looks of the night, but here is my most favorite picture of the night. I spotted these beauties on Jennifer Lopez’s Instagram:

Jennifer Lopez and Beyonce